Wednesday, June 6, 2012

What NOT To Say to A Pregnant Lady

My sister warned me that once my prego belly started showing, the whole world would start patting it and offering lots of advice.   She was right, but I don't really mind. I actually think it's kind of fun. I've never had a water balloon size belly before and I'd never want one if I weren't having a baby. So, pat away while you can.  There have been a few comments that have thrown me for a loop, though.....okay, maybe just one in particular.

1).  Yesterday someone stated that they couldn't tell that I was pregnant except for the fact that my face looks "fuller." (I was covered in a large tunic because I was getting my hair cut)    Hmmm....way to make a girl feel just plain fat.  I'm now feeling very motivated to train for marathon number two! (after the baby arrives).

Luckily, most people are really kind and tell me "how wonderful I look."  My niece declared that she thinks I look "beautiful with my big belly."  These are good examples of what one SHOULD say to a pregnant lady!  Never, ever, ever make any references to her "fuller face." 

I'm sure there will be other comments in the future that will cause me to be self-conscious about my ever growing figure, but I'm attempting to listen to the ones that make me feel good about the way I look! Attempting is the KEY word in that last sentence!