Today I asked Joel if he felt like NJ was home. The song, "Sweet Home Alabama" was playing at our gym and I replaced Alabama with our new home state. He replied, "No." My response was, "Yeah, I feel like I'm on some sort of weird vacation...one where I have to unpack boxes all the time:)
Here's our NJ top five so far:
1)
The people. Seriously, I could listen to these people all day long. Their accents and attitudes are to die for.
2)
Small businesses. I love the fact I can walk (it would be a long walk, but still) to a bakery and buy freshly made canolis.
3)
The Neighborhoods. My jaw drops almost every time I'm riding in a car with Joel. Seriously, some of these people live in castles. (just so you know, we live in a town house...and are nowhere near the neighborhoods that epitomize the movie "Stepford Wives")
4)
Pizza, Pizza, Pizza!! I haven't been to an Italian restaurant since we moved here, but you could buy me pizza anytime of day and I'd love you forever.
5)
Our Home. I can't believe how fortunate we are. The first time we went looking for a place to rent, I almost cried. I love the space we have here. It's perfect for us.
Here's our NJ bottom three so far:
1)
The Roads. They have been the cause of ALL marital stress during our transition period. Pot holes, signs covered by trees and multiple name changes within short distances. Grrrr...Oh..and no left hand turns.
2)
Customer Service. Sheesh. I will admit that I complained about this in VA also. I guess I'm just used to "Minnesota Nice." Someone explained to me yesterday that people aren't trying to be mean in NJ....they just sound that way. That made me feel a little better. Here's an example of a phone conversation I had with a washer/dryer salesman.
salesman-"Hello"
me-"Hey, I just had a couple of questions for you. Can you tell me where you are located?"
salesman-"Who is this?"
me-thinking I called the wrong number I said.."Ummm..who is this. I'm trying to get a hold of the business that sells washer and dryers."
salesman-"that's us"
me-"Uh okay...can you tell me the address and your hours."
He ended up giving me the information, but it was definitely an unpleasant phone conversation!
3)
Did I say the roads? :)